
Herts Therapy
Uma Mays
(Psychotherapist & Supervisor
MBACP Accred)

Individual Therapy
The psychodynamic approach is derived from psychoanalysis, where psychological problems are believed to be rooted in the unconscious mind. Experiences from a person's past can influence thoughts, emotions and behaviour in later life. A therapist will aim to build an accepting and trusting relationship, encouraging you to talk about your childhood relationships with your parents and other significant people. Also by using techniques such as free association, interpretation and transference to identify repressed feelings or conflicts that are affecting you now. Brining these to the front of your mind allows any negative feelings to be dealt with.
Couples Therapy
Relationship therapy encourages the parties in a relationship to recognise repeating patterns of distress and to understand and manage troublesome differences that they are experiencing. It focuses on facilitating changes in behaviour by learning new ways of communication, understanding and accepting differences and becoming aware of how our past can influence the present.
Pre-marital Counselling
Pre-marital counselling enables couples to understand their relationship styles they’re bringing into a relationship and how that may influence their married life together. It focuses on enabling couples to work together in a 'couple relationship' from the start.
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Divorce and Separation
Divorce and Separation Counselling provides a space for couples and individuals to work through the ending of a marriage or relationship. It will help parters to become aware of their part in the break-up and be able to manage their difficult emotions in helpful ways. Also to process the loss and grief of a relationship ending.
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Psychosexual Therapy
Sexual therapy for both couples and individuals enables partners to understand the causes for their dysfunction, symptoms and issues and to become aware of their psychological impact on their sexual functioning.